Dear Mr. Scam Artist…you have messed with the wrong woman!



Hello Readers! Before I get to the gist of this post…can I just say I can’t party like it’s 1999 anymore?! Can anyone else relate that is in their 40’s or 50’s? I had THE most amazing weekend because I…

Divorce…From a Guy’s Persepctive



Hello Readers! I am so excited about tonight’s post…because I have my first guest blog writer to present to you! My good friend Steven Nibur has kindly put pen to paper and writes about divorce as he sees it from his perspective…It’s…

My Mother…My Inspiration…My Rock



This post is dedicated to my Mother, Isabelle.  My Inspiration. My Rock. My greatest fan. A woman that loves me Minces to Pinces… as she still tells me today. She tells me she can’t love me anymore because it hurts. I understand this sentiment now being a…

Rule of 3’s…What my 3 taught me about myself.



I was plagued by the Rule of 3’s this weekend.  Ever happen to you? Hopefully you will chuckle at some of what I share and also think, OMG! So keep reading!  I’ve been in a  great place; happy and at peace.  Damn, it felt AMAZING!  Ironically…

3 Reasons Why I Won’t Tell a Friend I Saw her Husband on an On-line Dating Site



A friend contacted me this week, very upset about what she had seen in an on-line dating app that she uses. More specifically, whom she had seen show up in her list of men that should could potentially choose from.  She saw her friends’ husband! YIKES! Her son…

Red Flags…what are they and can you identify them in a new relationship?



This objective view is written for my friend. Watching someone you love – and I do love my sister-tribe like family, is very hard. She went through a long two weeks of heart break.  I have written my observations of what I saw.  She has agreed to let me…

The Top Three Dating Rules…That are Bull$hit!



Can we all agree that the rules of dating have changed? Since being in the dating world, back in the olden days of the early 1990’s, (dang I feel old!)…the dating dynamics are so very different. First of all, WE DIDN’T HAVE SOCIAL MEDIA…

What if…everything you are going through is preparing your for something even greater?



God spoke to me today, many times, with the same message. Today’s blog post wasn’t going to be about this, but I felt that I had to listen to Him. We all have personal trials.  Losing loved ones. Battling Breast Cancer. Recent divorces. Illness. Broken hearts…

Woah, Nellie! Slow down your relationship!



I need you to stick with me as you read this post. I need to say as a disclaimer that I do not believe everyone man that does the type of things that will be discussed in this post has a hidden agenda. So please, no haters! The purpose of…

Here, Fishy-Fishy…My very own Cat-Fish experience



Yep…I was Cat-fished..Hook, Line, and Sinker. Who would have thunk? Me? A fairly smart women…graduate degree, professional degree, common sense, one that is never shy to ask the hard questions. But it happened…This summer…If it can happen to me, it…