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Monthly Archives: October 2016

Red Flags…what are they and can you identify them in a new relationship?



This objective view is written for my friend. Watching someone you love – and I do love my sister-tribe like family, is very hard. She went through a long two weeks of heart break.  I have written my observations of what I saw.  She has agreed to let me…

The Top Three Dating Rules…That are Bull$hit!



Can we all agree that the rules of dating have changed? Since being in the dating world, back in the olden days of the early 1990’s, (dang I feel old!)…the dating dynamics are so very different. First of all, WE DIDN’T HAVE SOCIAL MEDIA…

What if…everything you are going through is preparing your for something even greater?



God spoke to me today, many times, with the same message. Today’s blog post wasn’t going to be about this, but I felt that I had to listen to Him. We all have personal trials.  Losing loved ones. Battling Breast Cancer. Recent divorces. Illness. Broken hearts…

Woah, Nellie! Slow down your relationship!



I need you to stick with me as you read this post. I need to say as a disclaimer that I do not believe everyone man that does the type of things that will be discussed in this post has a hidden agenda. So please, no haters! The purpose of…

Here, Fishy-Fishy…My very own Cat-Fish experience



Yep…I was Cat-fished..Hook, Line, and Sinker. Who would have thunk? Me? A fairly smart women…graduate degree, professional degree, common sense, one that is never shy to ask the hard questions. But it happened…This summer…If it can happen to me, it…

Overwhelmed by God’s Grace and Love



This post is dedicated to my friend/neighbor; whose husband’s Celebration of Life I attended on Friday, October 7, 2016. I wanted to wait until today to actually post it, but it was written after I came home from attending. This post will be one of a more…

And the Winner Is…ME! Why I refuse to be a second choice!



I remember that feeling in 3rd grade, waiting to be picked for the kickball team. I literally felt the sweat running down my brow as I saw the captains deciding who to pick. My inner voice was begging, pleading that I wasn’t the last one to get picked…